On Saturday Evening, after 13 hours of labor (about 11 of them with minimal pain) our third daughter was born at 10:33 pm.
We have a child-naming pattern. All of our boys’ names start with B,C,D,E and F (but not in that order).
Sons and One Daughter
Our girls’ start with Ad and An.
Now we have an Ai.
Aimee Grace was born with fairly long light brown hair. She is our second smallest, at 7 pounds, 10 ounces.
It’s been almost eleven years since I gave birth to E, our youngest biological child. He just asked if he could change Aimee’s diaper.
Aimee and a ten and a half year old
And it’s been more than five year since we adopted F. But the memories and skills are coming back.
Aimee and a five year old
We feel blessed and amazed that in God’s grace, he would gift us with another life!
By the way, here’s my husband’s post about our new daughter. It has more information.
I’m writing this from a hospital room – for a good reason. I should have told you about this earlier.
Last summer, after thinking I was no longer able to have a baby (since I haven’t been pregnant in seven years), we received the happy news that I was pregnant.
The pregnancy has gone well. In fact, I think this has been was easier than my last few pregnancies. I’ve been much less tired. And my kids are much older. They can help out!
But now I’m at 38 weeks and the doctor was concerned that my blood pressure was too high so we’re inducing today!
Please pray; It’s been almost eleven years since I’ve given birth.
I’ll let you know!
Do you ever start “evaluating” your life and making plans for the future even when you don’t really want to? Someone mentions to you something they’re doing (on what you assume is a regular basis) and you’re thrown into a mental panic: Oh, no! I should be doing that TOO! And if you’re a homeschooling mom, you add, I’m probably ruining my kids by not doing this already! And THEN I think, I’ll have to add that in the future—but how will I do it all?
Well, this happens to me ALL THE TIME! So I was encouraged when I read the following devotional the other day…this is most of it, but it’s not very long…
God’s mercies are new every morning because each day only has enough mercy in it for that day.
This is why we tend to despair when we think that we may have to bear tomorrow’s load on today’s resources. God wants us to know: We won’t. Today’s mercies are for today’s troubles. Tomorrow’s mercies are for tomorrow’s troubles.
Sometimes we wonder if we will have the mercy to stand in terrible testing. Yes, we will. Peter says, “If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you” (1 Peter 4:14). When the reviling comes the Spirit of glory comes. It happened for Stephen as he was being stoned. It will happen for you.
When the Spirit and the glory are needed they will come.
The manna in the wilderness was given one day at a time. There was no storing up. That is the way we must depend on God’s mercy. You do not receive today the strength to bear tomorrow’s burdens. You are given mercies today for today’s troubles.
(This is from Desiring God’s Daily Devotional app, which features over 30 years of John Piper’s teaching. It’s free!)
We need to focus on the mercy that’s given for TODAY and remember that NEW mercy will be given for tomorrow—whatever that may bring. So keep going today, even if you feel like you’re only plodding. Or even “failing.” (I’m preaching to myself.) J
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. (Lamentations 3:22-23)
Today we said good-bye to my grandma’s freezer, which we have owned for 15 years. As we were waiting in front of it for the new freezer to arrive (we get excited about little things!), we wondered how old it really was. So I told this story…
When I was (I think) seven, my grandma broke both of her arms while ice skating. (I thought that was cool when I was seven; now I realize it wasn’t.) As children like to do, I drew a picture of my grandma with both arms in a cast. That picture hung on my grandma’s freezer for many years. That’s how I knew the freezer was at least 36 years old.
Then we looked up “Sears Coldspot Freezer” online and learned that Sears only made “Coldspots” from 1928 to 1976.
I was sad to see it go, since it represented so many happy memories of my grandma’s house (and her cooking and baking), but here are some nice things about the new freezer…
- The new freezer door closes all the way (and it’s even hard to open)!
- We don’t have to use duct tape to keep the door closed.
- I won’t have to dig out what I want from the freezer.
- I won’t have to work really hard to get something in.
- Our food is going to taste better—and I won’t have to keep throwing away my frozen vegetables.
- It’s going to be less expensive to run.
- It’s clean.
- It’s cold.
I hope my children and grandchildren grow up to have fond memories of our freezer—and the food and holidays and family get-togethers it represents!
Every Christmas for the past several years, my mother-in-law has given my kids swimming lessons for their Christmas present–and then she picks them up and brings them once a week for the next eight weeks. This is a great idea for several reasons…
- We don’t want our kids to associate Christmas with a lot of presents
- We don’t need any more toys in our house
- The kids are learning a valuable skill, and it counts as Phy Ed
- I get a quiet morning once a week in January and February (this is the best one!)
So each year I usually work on a big project on these quiet Thursday mornings, such as painting. But this year, I’ve been decluttering, mostly because I don’t want to paint with my three-year-old around! (He was still taking a morning nap last year.) This morning, in addition to doing general decluttering in my bedroom, I went through a whole box of stuff in the storage room that we haven’t even looked at since we moved–six year ago! Now I have room on my storage shelf for a box that’s been sitting in my bedroom for six months (cloth diapers–and I’m saving them for now; maybe one of my kids will want to use cloth diapers for their babies!)
I’ve been doing much better at decluttering as I go (and you can get a LOT done in five minutes, as it turns out), but in order to tackle the “laziness” (or busy-ness) of the last fifteen years, it’s nice to have some chunks of time. So I’ve decided that even after swimming lessons are over, I’m going to spend part of every Friday (a lighter school day) going through at least one box! I don’t want to leave a huge mess for Scott and the kids when I die! (Nor do I want to look at it for that long!)
I’m always inspired by images of simple homes, like this one…if one or two people can live in a house this tiny, then maybe my nine-person-family could live just a little bit like this–in a bigger house! (Although the owner of the house in this image obviously doesn’t homeschool!)
I just thought I would mention that my laptop has been going in and out of “surgeries” for three months(!), since the middle of December. My loving husband bought me an iPod Touch during that time (which I really, really, REALLY like), but it’s a little hard to blog on it (at least for me.) 🙂
So hopefully, my computer is now here to stay!
Since today is the first day of Lent, I got out our book, Family Celebrations at Easter, by Ann Hibbard. I highly recommend this book, as it appeals to many ages and more than one learning style, and focuses on the gospel.
Each devotional begins with a short present-day story or situation, then moves to a Bible reading (not very long) pertaining to Lent. Then come discussion questions, and I usually start with the youngest child and work my way around the table of kids, asking the provided questions and making up a few of my own. I can quickly think of easy questions for the younger kids, and the more thought-provoking questions often launch my older kids into a meaningful discussion of the topic at hand.
The devotional ends with a short prayer and a suggested hymn, and then instructions about which symbol* to hang on our Lent tree. The kids have fun guessing which symbol it is, based on that day’s reading.
*We copied the symbols (from the back of the book) a few years ago onto card stock, cut them out, colored them, and tied pretty yarn to each of them. Also, we don’t have a tree; one year we just tied the symbols to a crocheted string hung across our fireplace mantel.